I just talked with a young single girl in her twenties. She started dating at sixteen and would like to have a committed dating Christian relationship. She said guys don't want that. They just want to jump in bed with you. I told her that a young man who only wants that doesn't respect her or God's Word. My mother always said, why would you buy the cow when you can get the milk free. There is a lot of truth in that statement!
I pointed out also that he would distrust her for the duration of the relationship because he would think if she did it with him, she would do it with someone else and there would always be a trust issue.
It's an old cliche but, if he loves you, he will wait until marriage.
